Do you suffer from neurotic love? The symptoms are that you constantly move from one relationship to another. Neurotic love is driven by a constant fear of loss and withdrawal. Ironically the threat of loss triggers flight and an overwhelming desire to destroy the relationship. The sequence of events often takes the following course: Here [...]

The perfect relationship cannot be found. It is an absurd, illusory and immature ideal. It is unrealistic a concept as the perfect human being. Perfection is not possible in human relationships. All relationships are a negotiated compromise between two imperfect human beings. Expectations of perfection create tensions, disappointments and frustration. Every human being fluctuates in [...]